32 thoughts on “Use Body Language to Increase Your Influence”

  1. hello Vanessa!! i really wanted to learn about non verbal behavior and body language and one main problem is that i am a high school student now i am joining to undergrat level. so i dont know which major should i choose for non vebal behaviour and body language , i really need your help!!!! plz explain it to me..

  2. Hello Ms Vanessa. We were viewing this video and noticed something odd during your youtube presentation. Between the time of 8:04 to 8:10 there is a quick message that comes up. It has a picture of a teenage girl and she is struggling with ??? Perhaps you can have your IT department check it out. It is rather disturbing.
    Thank you for the work you do.

    Kind regards,
    Vanessa

  3. Thank you so much! 🙂 I used to do all this stuff naturally, not knowing what i was doing. i never didn't get a job, i never had any social problems, then i saw that i was mirroring people and freaked out, so i stopped doing it and started falling out with people, i saw that other people would keep they're head down so i started doing that, my life fell apart, and now I'm relearning all this, but I'm grateful because now i consciously know it, i know what I'm doing – and it absolutely works, thank you for all your work and your generosity in sharing it :)

  4. Fascinating but not sure I buy entirely into this alpha posing. Some of our greatest leaders, Abe Lincoln, Harry Truman (speak softly, carry a big stick) were more on the introverted side. Giving thoughtful in your answers instead of barreling through the interview (forehard up! Shoulders back!) would turn me off. So it's not as quite black and white as this video seems to make it. You can be thoughtful, even kind, and filled with confidence to the brim. Doesn't mean you won't get the job. I'm living proof.

  5. I wonder why this sort of thing wasn't taught to me at school or by my parents etc. I am only just finding this out now at 36. It would have been so much better to have found this knowledge out at the beginning of my life.

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