To overcome the **destroyer** in life, the speaker suggests two key strategies:
1. **Delay the process**:
* Recognize that the cycle of failure is happening and consciously choose to delay making a decision. For example, if you feel a project won’t work or you’re about to quit, delay your decision by **three months**, **six months**, or even **one year**, depending on the situation. This gives you time to evaluate things from a different perspective before making a final choice. It’s about taking control of your **internal perspective**, even if external factors are beyond your control.
2. **Become the pillar**:
* The **destroyer** can be minimized by becoming the **pillar** of the sector you’re in—whether it’s your business, career, marriage, or relationships. In Chinese, **pillar** (tenu tu) refers to something strong and central. The idea is to make yourself a crucial, unshakable part of that sector. When you focus on strengthening your position and becoming indispensable, the destructive forces of the **destroyer** will diminish. By becoming the **most important person** in your career, relationship, or business, you build resilience and create a foundation that allows you to thrive despite challenges.
These strategies suggest that by gaining control over your internal mindset and solidifying your position in key areas of life, you can overcome negative cycles and prosper.
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